‘She wanted to die, not be killed’: Canadian woman says 93-year-old mother nearly euthanised over one remark

New Yorkers are being warned they could be opening “Pandora’s box” as the state moves towards legalizing physician-assisted suicide this summer, with Canada’s experience as a cautionary tale.Debbie Fisher, a 71-year-old from Ontario, said her elderly mother narrowly avoided being euthanised after making a single remark in hospital. Her mother, 93-year-old Rita Busby, had been admitted after accidentally overdosing on prescribed medication. While drowsy, she told a nurse she “wanted to die”.Hospital staff took the comment seriously and began preparing for euthanasia. “I was terrified. I couldn’t believe what was happening. They talked to me like I was putting a dog down,” Fisher told The New York Post.Fisher said her mother had no intention of ending her life. “My mom wanted to die, she didn’t want to be killed!” she said. “If I hadn’t been there, and she hadn’t signed over Power of Attorney, who knows what would have happened”.Busby avoided the procedure and lived for another six months, during which she resumed normal activities, including bowling, attending baseball games and reconnecting with family, before dying naturally at home in 2019.Fisher is now urging families in New York to prepare in advance as the state plans to legalise physician assisted suicide. The law is set to take effect from August 4. It will allow eligible patients with terminal illness to request life-ending medication, subject to strict conditions.

The case of Heather Hancock

In Canada, 58-year-old Heather Hancock, who lives with cerebral palsy, warned of a “slippery slope”. “You just opened Pandora’s Box, and the slippery slope will get very steep very fast,” she said.Hancock claimed she had been encouraged multiple times by medical professionals to consider ending her life. Recalling one hospital visit, she said, “the nurse on my ward looked at me and said, ‘You really should consider MAiD. You’re not living. You’re just existing,’”.She now carries a “do not euthanize” card and warned vulnerable groups to remain alert. “Keep your ears and eyes open, especially if you have a disability or mental illness or are in any way considered a disadvantaged or non-contributing member of society. Those are the people that are targeted,” she said, adding, “[PAS] is an effective way to get rid of those they deem draining the healthcare system. It’s not compassionate.”Canada legalized physician-assisted dying a decade ago and has since expanded access. Estimates suggest around 100,000 people have died under the system, accounting for roughly one in 20 deaths in 2024.The system has become increasingly permissive. Canada is expected to extend eligibility to those with mental illness as the sole condition in 2027, pending legal challenges.Medical bodies in the United States have also raised concerns, stating that physician-assisted suicide is incompatible with the role of a doctor and carries serious societal risks.